Every Mom :)
"I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
- What Harry Met Sally
Effy: No.
Freddie: Why?
Effy: Because I’ll break your heart.
Freddie: Maybe I’ll break yours.
Effy: Nobody breaks my heart. And anyway, why would I want that?
Need a lil' spark in my life before I burn out.
A little surprise won't hurt.
All I'm seeing is cats cats and more cats. I have no idea why.
Those heart-shaped quilt cover <3
Singapore probably doesn't have them.
Max Azria. Gorgeous.
I want books.
I want flowers.
I want sunshine & rain.
I want a feast.
Starving..
That's Your love in my life.
It's You who made me stronger, need You more than never,
You're the reason why I'm singing for You.
It's You who create wonders, help me through struggles,
it's Your love that surrounds my whole world.
<3
The smell of fresh flowers in the morning air, a hot cup of drink & a sweet butter cupcake.
That is. Bliss.
Sick of all these junk, it's not even satisfying.
Medium-rare tenderloin steak.
Someone feed me that already!
what you are falling in love with.
You are falling in love with my insecurities, and my obsession with trying to figure out what everyone thinks of me. You are falling in love with my immaturity, my constant need to feel loved and appreciated, my overactive tear ducts, my internet obsession, my tendency to be too crazy. You fall in love with my troubled past, and my hopes and dreams, and how I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. If you fall in love with me, you fall in love with my self-hate and all my imperfections and my perception that nobody could ever love me.
But, you are also falling in love with the way my eyes will smile when I’m with you, the way I’ll text you in the mornings just telling you I hope you have a great day. You’re falling in love with the occasionally humorous and/or thought-provoking things I say, and the way I blush when people ask me about you. But to me, the most important thing will be that you are falling in love with me, despite my thinking that it is impossible”
My heart is ugly, but it could be all yours.
The Inspirer
As an ENFP, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you take things in primarily via your intuition. Your secondary mode is internal, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit in with your personal value system.
ENFPs are warm, enthusiastic people, typically very bright and full of potential. They live in the world of possibilities, and can become very passionate and excited about things. Their enthusiasm lends them the ability to inspire and motivate others, more so than we see in other types. They can talk their way in or out of anything. They love life, seeing it as a special gift, and strive to make the most out of it.
ENFPs have an unusually broad range of skills and talents. They are good at most things which interest them. Project-oriented, they may go through several different careers during their lifetime. To onlookers, the ENFP may seem directionless and without purpose, but ENFPs are actually quite consistent, in that they have a strong sense of values which they live with throughout their lives. Everything that they do must be in line with their values. An ENFP needs to feel that they are living their lives as their true Self, walking in step with what they believe is right. They see meaning in everything, and are on a continuous quest to adapt their lives and values to achieve inner peace. They're constantly aware and somewhat fearful of losing touch with themselves. Since emotional excitement is usually an important part of the ENFP's life, and because they are focused on keeping "centered", the ENFP is usually an intense individual, with highly evolved values.
An ENFP needs to focus on following through with their projects. This can be a problem area for some of these individuals. Unlike other Extraverted types, ENFPs need time alone to center themselves, and make sure they are moving in a direction which is in sync with their values. ENFPs who remain centered will usually be quite successful at their endeavors. Others may fall into the habit of dropping a project when they become excited about a new possibility, and thus they never achieve the great accomplishments which they are capable of achieving.
Most ENFPs have great people skills. They are genuinely warm and interested in people, and place great importance on their inter-personal relationships. ENFPs almost always have a strong need to be liked. Sometimes, especially at a younger age, an ENFP will tend to be "gushy" and insincere, and generally "overdo" in an effort to win acceptance. However, once an ENFP has learned to balance their need to be true to themselves with their need for acceptance, they excel at bringing out the best in others, and are typically well-liked. They have an exceptional ability to intuitively understand a person after a very short period of time, and use their intuition and flexibility to relate to others on their own level.
Because ENFPs live in the world of exciting possibilities, the details of everyday life are seen as trivial drudgery. They place no importance on detailed, maintenance-type tasks, and will frequently remain oblivous to these types of concerns. When they do have to perform these tasks, they do not enjoy themselves. This is a challenging area of life for most ENFPs, and can be frustrating for ENFP's family members.
An ENFP who has "gone wrong" may be quite manipulative - and very good it. The gift of gab which they are blessed with makes it naturally easy for them to get what they want. Most ENFPs will not abuse their abilities, because that would not jive with their value systems.
ENFPs sometimes make serious errors in judgment. They have an amazing ability to intuitively perceive the truth about a person or situation, but when they apply judgment to their perception, they may jump to the wrong conclusions.
ENFPs who have not learned to follow through may have a difficult time remaining happy in marital relationships. Always seeing the possibilities of what could be, they may become bored with what actually is. The strong sense of values will keep many ENFPs dedicated to their relationships. However, ENFPs like a little excitement in their lives, and are best matched with individuals who are comfortable with change and new experiences.
Having an ENFP parent can be a fun-filled experience, but may be stressful at times for children with strong Sensing or Judging tendancies. Such children may see the ENFP parent as inconsistent and difficult to understand, as the children are pulled along in the whirlwind life of the ENFP. Sometimes the ENFP will want to be their child's best friend, and at other times they will play the parental authoritarian. But ENFPs are always consistent in their value systems, which they will impress on their children above all else, along with a basic joy of living.
ENFPs are basically happy people. They may become unhappy when they are confined to strict schedules or mundane tasks. Consequently, ENFPs work best in situations where they have a lot of flexibility, and where they can work with people and ideas. Many go into business for themselves. They have the ability to be quite productive with little supervision, as long as they are excited about what they're doing.
Because they are so alert and sensitive, constantly scanning their environments, ENFPs often suffer from muscle tension. They have a strong need to be independent, and resist being controlled or labelled. They need to maintain control over themselves, but they do not believe in controlling others. Their dislike of dependence and suppression extends to others as well as to themselves.
ENFPs are charming, ingenuous, risk-taking, sensitive, people-oriented individuals with capabilities ranging across a broad spectrum. They have many gifts which they will use to fulfill themselves and those near them, if they are able to remain centered and master the ability of following through.
Jungian functional preference ordering for ENFP:
Auxiliary: Introverted Feeling
Tertiary: Extraverted Thinking
Inferior: Introverted Sensing
Seems to fit me perfectly *shrugs*
Too many of us stay walled because we are afraid of being hurt. We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.
-Eleanor Roosevelt
That's why I'm afraid.
Not as though I haven't been through enough disappointments.
I can't help, my heart is welled up with too much worries and hurts.
Can't do this, I can't, I have too little faith, too little trust.
Maybe..Can we sail to spain just me and you?
Open ocean and the bright blue sky above
Give me a dance she says
Just take my hand she says
I don’t want anything
Let’s make our getaway
Just me and you babe
The rest of the world can wait
The yellow flowers at the back <3We write our own fairytale in blood and tears, crazy hair with sluttering words, but heartache to heartache we'll stand. Make your own life the fairytale you want to live in, not those that were told during bedtimes. Because those are made-up, real life fairytales do exist.
The exceptions, remember that? *smirk*
(the words are kinda tiny to read, so click on it)
We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.
- Camille Pissarro
"I couldn't sleep, his skin it smelled so sweet...
Oh sunny, Sunday Valentine honey...
We talk of music, we talk of touch...
I didn't mean to like you so much..."
I've believed in it since I was a kid, beautiful ones, romantic moments. As I grow up, things happen on the way to maturity, disappointments, the wait, the rules to follow, made me to stop believing in love. It never occured to me that if it hits me again, what would I do. Never wondered. Expected to just wait till it comes, probably 5years, 10years down the road.
I guess they were right when they say things happen when you least expected. Guess I'll have to be careful with what I wish for next time. After eyes are met, lips are locked.
Maybe, maybe.
All kinds of fears are kicking in, but I want to believe; I'll try.
Maybe this time I can. Afterall, you reversed time for me.
:)
Happy Valentine's.
As though life wasn't sad enough.RIP.
Can topshop bring this in already! I'll buy all three colours I promise ;)
Couples celebrate their love, while we singles celebrate another kind of love;
while still believing in that special kind love I hope.
;)
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